The Best Women

April 10, 2007

She is content: Such woman is the best one who becomes happy and content when her husband puts a loving glance on her, and when he orders her for something right, she obeys him immediately, and never does any thing against his will. – Holy Prophet Muhammad (saw)

She is a great cook and a good administrator: A woman who cooks neat, clean and delicious food for her husband. Allah has provided great food for such nice wife in paradise. In heaven, she will be asked to drink and eat whatever you wish, as this is the reward for the pain and services which you performed for your husband! – Holy Prophet Muhammad (saw)

The best woman among your women is one who cooks delicious food, spends the money justly and does not waste it. Such women are the workers of Allah, and the workers of Allah never get hopeless and regretful! – Imam Jafer-e-Sadiq (as)

She is priceless: A woman doesn’t have any price, whether she is good or bad. A good and nice lady can not be measured with money or gold or silver, as she is far more expensive and precious than money or gold. Similarly, a woman with bad character and worst nature can not be compared with sand, as sand is far more higher and good than her. – Imam Jafer-e-Sadiq (as)

She is loving, caring and patient: Do not you want me to tell you about those ladies who will enter paradise? A woman who is loving and caring to her husband, and gives births to his children and when he gets angry with her, she instantly says my hand is in your hand like she does not get satisfied until her husband becomes happy with her. – Holy Prophet Muhammad (saw)

She is obedient: Lucky and fortunate woman is one who respects her husband and does not give him any pain, hurt or discomfort and does not makes him worried and obeys him in all the right aspects of life. – Imam Jafer-e-Sadiq (as)

She does Jihaad: The Jihaad of woman is that she must not lose her patience if she gets hurt from her husband. Her patience is her Jihaad. – Holy Prophet Muhammad (saw)

14 Responses to “The Best Women”

  1. adikbongsu Says:

    dis is a beautiful post my dearest, masya-Allah how lucky are the women who are able to do the above….i dun think i am one of them… :(

  2. Muna Says:

    it is beautiful isn’t it, kak?

    we shall strive to be like the best women. am sure at least one of the above fits you, kakakku. and i wanna tell you a secret. each time i read this page, the urge to get married and be a wife as soon as possible and thus, be the best slave, keeps knocking hard. Allah knows best.

    i love you, kak banun.

  3. adikbongsu Says:

    insya-Allah dear muna your wish will come true, somewhere and who noes one of these days, a man is just waiting to knock on your door….as u said it dear, Allah knows best, and may the best always happens to you…*hugs*

    i love you too my dearest, miss you everyday, every since the day i met you again on the web, its like all those dormant feelings i had deep in heart for you, for ustazah, for thuraiya and the men in your family just wells up again to the surface. It makes me realise how much i truly miss my days wif u all. the most are the days i spent as arwah ust. student. miss those days truly.

    am jus glad i was given the opportunity to be wif u all again even for a short while (wif ummi)

    luv you …

  4. nadiah Says:

    Assalamualaikum sis,
    this is a wonderful piece of post.
    may Allah allow us to work towards this.

    Sis,
    is it ok if i copy this to my blog?

  5. Muna Says:

    wa’alaikumussalam wr wb sister nadiah,

    of course you may. :)

  6. Awalliah Says:

    Salaam Muna,
    I think a lot about your mom upon reading this post. Though I only knew her for a short period of time, she has left a very deep impression in me. I remebered the food spread she served when I went over for Eidulfitri visit. It was simple yet nutritious – food for the brain and heart as she said it. She is such a loving and caring woman. Despite her tiredness, she always has a smile and good word to say to others to make their day. I would have loved to learn from her how she brought up her fine children. A murshidah she is to me.

  7. Nur Says:

    I came across here through Srichantique’s.She does not know who i am,neither do i know her.but the way she talks about you,makes me want to know you more.you sure help me open my eyes to read even more about our religion.you have somehow shown the wonderful-ness about being a lady,a Muslim lady.i thank you for sharing so much.i look forward to keeping in touch.

  8. Fathima Says:

    Thank you so much for giving hope and something that we can strive in our lif to become. I believe that i didnt read it accidently, there is a reason. I think Allah wants me to become the women I am supposed to become. I want to thank you so much

  9. aishah Says:

    assamualaikum kak muna..
    aishah here..
    i jus came upon ur blog..
    ur entries r so beautiful..
    especially posts bout women..
    i strive to b a better woman..
    n never forget bout him..
    i never felt tis way..
    alhamdulilah..
    =)
    take care

  10. aishah Says:

    the him refers to ALLAH..
    oops..forgot to mention..
    i still gt a lot to learn

  11. adik Says:

    kakak!!! adik baru first time baca reply kat atas tu. ekhekhekhe

  12. sha'bana Says:

    am soo hepy..!thanx for sharing !!cant wait to share wif other’s..!

  13. filah Says:

    salam

    muna can i post this in my blog / note ???

    thanks

    love filah :)

  14. Sharifah ghouse Says:

    It is so easy for women to enter jannaah but it is difficult too… Love to cook for the family ESP for husband n children .. But Susah nak to have smiling face towards husband selalu..sometimes we do get upset when they don’t help round the house…kita pun penat juga kan .. But nevermind try to be goog loving wife ..IA


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